Hi. I’m your favorite MTMS blogger. I have two kids who have both been students of Michelle Tuesday Music School. Recently I picked up the guitar and asked myself why I’m not taking lessons.
Part of that is an easy answer, right? I work full-time, and I get my kids in lessons to enrich them for the future. My thoughts aren’t centered on what my own goals and dreams are, so I sometimes forget to take the time out of my day to do them. I’m slowly changing that attitude.
Fun fact: Michelle taught me my first guitar lesson in 2008, before she opened the school, on her guitar. I’m not focusing on how much better I’d be if I’d started real lessons with her then. I’m enjoying that I can play some now.
There’s difficult things along my journey. While I learned piano and trumpet when I was younger and my parents reminded me to practice daily, now I’m learning to practice when my kids can hear me. They haven’t started goading me into it, and I beat myself up for skipping a day when I had family stuff to do or I had to work on other projects.
One of the cool parts about taking a piece of my day for myself is that I’m happier. It’s a fun thing that sometimes gets sandwiched between the laundry and the dishes and I look forward to playing. Once I left my guitar on the bed for a few minutes to take care of something and the cat played a string by plucking it with his teeth. I’m waiting for that to happen again, but it hasn’t yet.
Enrichment and fulfillment don’t end when we become adults. Yes, we need to do give our kids the opportunities, but don’t forget yourself when we’re busy doing all of the things for family.